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Monday, March 30, 2009 1:12 AM Dear readers, Have you encoutered a situation where you have to let go be it emotionally,physically or mentally.It would take alot of effort to let go of something dear to us,the concoction of letting go would be love.Because when you love someone you would want to see him or her being happy.I've found a beautiful piece that i would like to share entitled Letting go takes love ; i truly agree to that because i've done so. To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself. To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies. To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny,but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it. To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. To let go is to fear less and love more Apart from letting go i also believe that forgiveness is another step that will pull you away from the force of darkness and negativity.Saying it is a thousand and one times much easier than doing it,trust me dear friends ; it won't take a day or two to realised how important is forgiving ~the anger,vengeance and revenge that is instilled in you,it won't do you any good its only preventing you from moving forward towards the light that life has to offer. Why do we hold grudges and become resentful and unforgiving? The people most likely to hurt us are those closest to us — our partners, friends, siblings and parents. When we're hurt by someone we love and trust — whether it's a lie, betrayal, rejection, abuse or insult — it can be extremely difficult to overcome. And even minor offenses can turn into huge conflicts. When you experience hurt or harm from someone's actions or words, whether this is intended or not, you may begin experiencing negative feelings such as anger, confusion or sadness, especially when it's someone close to you. These feelings may start out small. But if you don't deal with them quickly, they can grow bigger and more powerful. They may even begin to crowd out positive feelings. Grudges filled with resentment, vengeance and hostility take root when you dwell on hurtful events or situations, replaying them in your mind many times. Soon, you may find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. You may feel trapped and may not see a way out. It's very hard to let go of grudges at this point and instead you may remain resentful and unforgiving I've learn to forgive & forget,what about you? Trust me,i see the light only after years. To love is to let the robin fly up to the sky like a free bird. |
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